The Gifts of Change
by Nancy Christie
Published by Beyond Words Publishing
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Reviewed by Celia Renteria Szelwach, DBA (ABD)
Written by "change master" Nancy Christie, The Gifts of Change offers poignant, authentic, and candid examples from the author's personal experiences to help others in their life journey. The book's relevance and value are undeniable--we all must become more resilient and comfortable with change in order to elevate our career effectiveness and life satisfaction.
During the introduction, the author encourages the reader to "Open your eyes. Open your mind. Open your heart," as the reader journeys through the challenging process of change. Through the eyes of her grandchild, the author recaptures "a sense of imagination and wonder" in order to lead a more fulfilling life.
In chapter five, Ms. Christie urges women to put themselves first periodically and fulfill their dreams by selecting "the cup without the chip." Perhaps her best message lies in chapter eight when she says, "We are most uniquely ourselves, with gifts and abilities that only we possess and can express. And when we consistently bury these parts of ourselves...we risk suffocating the essence of who we are."
This writing style is smooth, entertaining, and enjoyable. Each chapter conveys sound wisdom for handling personal change and transition. Although her stories do not always end happily, the tone is upbeat and optimistic like a comforting friend during tough times--realistic but hopeful.
The author clearly has insight into life's common transitions and the challenges inherent within them, whether having a baby and redefining career success, managing financial hardships, losing a loved one, or letting go of unhealthy relationships.
In a world where five-year-olds multi-task and productivity is priceless, The Gifts of Change is a welcome reminder that it's acceptable to slow down and reflect on the quality of our lives. The "juggling" metaphor no longer serves us since the ball we are likely to drop is often ourselves or the people and experiences we treasure most. When we're willing to accept life transitions as opportunities to regain perspective, the gifts of change will become readily available.
Armchair Interviews highly recommends this book for anyone experiencing life-changing transitions and looking for solid tips in managing them effectively.