Eyes Wide Open
by Brienne Murk
Published by Regal Books
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Reviewed by Lisa Frisbie
“Even if we aren’t having sex, endless cycles of dating and breaking up are…promiscuous. We are casually and indiscriminately giving away our hearts, one piece at a time.”
Author Brienne Murk of the popular music group “Myrrh” has developed a youth seminar based on living one’s faith in the real world. She and her sister, Heather, are frequent speakers at camps, conventions, churches, and youth events. Now in her 20s, Brienne relates to the challenges facing today’s teens, offering them hope and help.
In Eyes Wide Open, Murk encourages teens to decide in favor of “emotional purity” by setting boundaries and carefully guarding their hearts. An entire chapter is devoted to the dangers of internet chat rooms, IM’ing, e-mail and other ways that a ‘virtual relationship’ can develop. Such settings encourage anonymity, artificial identities and danger.
The book is crammed with real-life examples of emotional entanglements, heartache, and broken relationships that flow from a shallow, unguarded approach to life. Author Murk encourages the reader to set boundaries, put goals in writing, and find mentors who will keep her or him accountable and within the limits.
Filled with scripture references, the book reveals God’s good design for human sexuality, and reminds us of Biblical examples of both success and failure, from whom we can learn. Using the tools and concepts expressed in this book, a teen or college student can face the world of dating and relationships with confidence and “eyes wide open.”
“True purity is more than sexual abstinence – it’s a commitment, a promise, and a choice to guard your heart.”
Armchair Interviews says: Well-written, timely, and encouraging.
Author’s Web site: http://www.BrienneMurk.com