Bagels and Grits: A Jew on the Bayou
by Jennifer Anne Moses
Published by University of Wisconsin Press
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Reviewed by Linda Lee
When the author’s husband decides to leave his job as a lawyer to take one as a law professor, the family moves from their upscale, metropolitan home in the upper east to the deep south. Initially Jennifer Moses does so with a set of stereotypical beliefs about her new home area. She has a feeling of smug superiority over her new neighbors who, to her, all sound alike and don’t know about the good things in life.
Moses is Jewish, in a by-name-only way. She never became a bat mitzvah as a young girl.
Her father, who never let his daughters date on Friday nights and always went to shul on Saturdays, never pressed his religion on his family. The author has lived life on the outer edges of Judaism. Moving to the Bible Belt makes her question her ideas about God and probe into her relationship with Him. In her new surroundings “you can’t live in Baton Rouge without bumping up against Jesus just about every time you walk out of the house….”
While living in a world full of strangers, the one woman she’s known every day of her life deals with cancer. How does a good Jewish daughter deal with a terminally ill mother? Unable to help her mother with the distance between them, she volunteers at a residential treatment facility where she works with AIDS patients.
With a sense of humor and a willing spirit, she works with people who may not have much longer to talk about the important things in life. Moses conveys the changes in her life along with the reasons for them in a way that makes you feel as if you already knew all this–you’d just never put it into words.
Reading, you feel as if you’re having a conversation with a new neighbor and learning what makes her tick. You’ll surely invite her over to chat again as she’s entertaining, engaging, and caring. And when you close the door on her book, you can’t help but smile … and ponder the subjects she discussed.
Armchair Interviews says: A very touching story well told.
Author’s Web site: http://www.JenniferMoses.com